Should I break up with my Filipina girlfriend?
First off, I don't need any jerks dumping nasty crap in the comments. I know what this sorry sub has turned into, but I want genuine advice.
I've been with my girlfriend for 6 months and I'm just not attracted to her. There's no chemistry, and honestly she's not great in bed, but I feel bad because we're living together here in the Philippines. What should I do? I'm 38. That's not that old.
If you're even asking that question, the answer is yes.
Ask her if she's down for a threesome and whether you can bring another girl to bed. If she says yes, great. If she says no, you'll probably end up fighting, and then breaking up gets a lot easier. Good luck.
There are literally millions of people here and you chose to live with one you're not attracted to and have no connection with. And you need our advice? Are you an idiot? Probably.
Have you ever talked to her about any of this?
Be careful not to leave her in a tough spot, like having nowhere to live. Don't post anything negative on social media. Pay two months' rent and quietly move to another province.
You've already made up your mind and you're just looking for a way to justify it. Accept it. Which is worse: letting her believe she'll have a life with a loving, devoted partner, or becoming a man who grows more and more distant and resentful? If you like her even a little, if you have even a shred of empathy for her feelings, don't do that to her.
If you wanted genuine advice... you should've gone to a dating sub.
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