My wife and I moved to the US in 2010 to specialize in internal medicine. We came back to the Philippines every year on vacation, except during the COVID years. Our twin boys were 2 when we emigrated. Their love for the Philippines grew, and they taught themselves Tagalog from books and YouTube. Long story short, my kids were happier in the Philippines than in the US. My wife and kids moved back two years ago, and I followed two months ago. We've also started an assisted-living facility here, plus a concierge telemedicine practice for expats. So we're moving for business as well as quality of life for us and the kids. I spent a third of my life in the US. You can learn to 'drive aggressively' here; I had to relearn it these past two months. The key to not blowing your top while driving is to think of drivers as making do with the limited road space the Philippines has. I just try a little empathy: 'let's understand each other, we've got very little road, so yes, you go ahead and I'll wait my turn.' It helps keep your blood pressure down. You can also make use of those pesky motorcycles. When you need to turn left at a busy intersection with no traffic light, they're suicidal and go first, so just follow their lead and they clear the way for your left turn. Lol! Also, you're a dual citizen like me. You have the best of both worlds: the Philippines, where your businesses are established, and Canada, where you spent half your life. If you have an entrepreneurial mindset, think about what you learned in Canada that could make life better for Filipinos or expats here. Maybe you can build a business out of it. I'm still learning the ropes after two months here, but I think you'll be just fine.

Although the US health system is much, much better, life as an elderly person is more enjoyable in the Philippines as long as you're in a good location. I've been retired almost 12 years and go back and forth: once a year for 6–7 months, or twice a year if I only stay 3 months. We spend the cold months in the Philippines, and I can really feel fewer aches and pains of old age when I'm there. We're very lucky with where we live: an ocean view, very quiet and peaceful, no traffic, and easy access to hospitals, the airport, malls, universities and an international port. It may sound too good to be true, but come visit the small town of Currimao, Ilocos Norte, and see its amazing sunsets for yourself. The health system isn't that bad if you know how it works and have the right people helping you. Doctors in the Philippines are very smart; some even studied in the US, came back to practice and built their own hospitals. I really wish we could have an elderly community where I live; it would be ideal. If anyone's interested, come and see. There are plenty of hotels and Airbnbs nearby. I'll show you around myself.

I'm in the same boat. Dual citizen of Canada and a Caribbean island. Canada is good for six months of making money. But starting this year, at 33, I'm going snowbird.

Don't trust anyone

Don't learn to drive aggressively. You've read too many posts by foreigners. Stay alert, watch out for the stupid things unlicensed or untrained riders and drivers do, and always be the one who gives way.