Like, how old? For example, there are a few widows in their 60s and 70s in my family, and I know they're happy being single. They're retired, they have a house, their kids are grown and self-sufficient, and they're just enjoying the pensioner life. They don't want to add stress to their peaceful lives. I also know never-married, childless people in their 30s to 50s who'd rather stay single than be with an old man they'd eventually have to take care of. They'd also rather not be a stepmom to potentially bratty kids.

Those women have class. They work their butts off to have their own money. They don't need money from guys; they have their own money, their own cars, and their own houses. They're not easy to approach either; you have to make a real effort to meet them. Try attending Pilates classes. Rich, classy older ladies usually do Pilates, and they're usually doctors, lawyers, accountants, businesswomen, or professionals. They are NOT hanging around places like bars and malls. Good luck!

My 56-year-old fiancée and me. There are a LOT of widows in their late 40s and early 50s, if that's the age group you're looking for. (P.S. I'm 71 and wanted someone over 50)

Demographics, for one. Older people are also more likely to already have a partner. And they may be less willing to date a foreigner. They're all going to come out of the woodwork on this post, though.

Older Pinays are more caring than younger ones! Some are even richer than their foreign boyfriends, mind you!😜🤟