3 signs you picked a defective Filipina
1. Obsessed with social media
She keeps posting on social media even after you've made the relationship official. She's keeping her options open and has backup plans — and that's if she isn't ready to dump you outright the moment something better comes along. It's especially bad if she's posting thirst traps like TikTok dances.
2. Her family ALWAYS comes before you
Whether it's time, effort or money, she always puts her family ahead of your feelings. Yes, Filipinos generally have stronger family ties. But if you always end up feeling like the odd one out, you probably are. She's just not that into you.
3. Privacy
If you're in a serious relationship and she won't let you see her phone or is keeping secrets, it's probably worse than you can imagine. Don't let her gaslight you into thinking it's just about "privacy" or independence. 99% of the time she's hiding something she doesn't want you to see.
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Insane title.
Signs you found a defective expat. 1. Can't get a girl on his home turf 2. Needs to look for a foreign wife 3. Makes a stupid list like this.
The social media obsession is a red flag even before dating. The second one I'd agree with. The third... um, there's such a thing as privacy. The whole looking-at-someone's-phone thing is toxic af. Either you trust them or you don't; you don't need access to someone else's phone.
Being Filipina has nothing to do with it.
The biggest red flag is if she sleeps with you on the first date (haha, they always sleep with me on the first date)
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