Four days into our long-distance relationship, my girlfriend wanted to tattoo my initial on her ring finger
Dude, be careful. This isn't a common attachment style anywhere. It's a red flag for possible desperation. She's suspiciously REALLY invested. Could be tons of hidden motives
My ex tattooed my initials on her wrist within the first four months. I never told her how I felt about it because I was sure she'd be offended. Then she cheated on me with a Filipino guy and got pregnant. But the best thing she ever did for me was tell me. She never pretended it was mine, and she was the one who officially ended things.
Personally, I don't get this kind of dating and commitment. I've read stories of people making it work, but it's not something I could do. To me, an LDR with someone you've never met is a fantasy. And I'm not putting that kind of energy into a fantasy.
I'm biased toward the Philippines and Filipinas. I married a Filipina I met online. She said 'I love you' first, after just a few days of messaging. Filipinas are amazing; they're raised to treat their men well. Personally, I think if you find a Filipina who's going to commit to you, and you find her attractive, like her personality, and can bring yourself to say you love her, you're a lucky man. I have no regrets marrying my Filipina. We're a good team. She's so affectionate and attentive, I just love her.
'Talking to a Filipina girl for 1 month ... So far, great chemistry.' There's nothing special about that. You can get that experience at a McDonald's drive-thru. 'The person I'd been talking to, who wanted to do something so permanent and so impulsive after one month' Did you read your own post? You've been chatting 'intensely' for hours at a time about marriage, babies and the future. The one with the problem is you. You're just pinning it on her.
If Jerry Springer and Maury were still on the air, they'd have a field day with American-passport grooms and their Filipino wives
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