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Do your girlfriends clean and cook for you too?

AmbitiousYoutuberOct 27
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Do your girlfriends clean and cook for you too?

I invited a foreign guy over to my place, and he looked completely shocked when he told me the women he's seeing don't cook or clean for him.

For context, he's a chubby guy in his 40s who dates women in their 20s. My girlfriend and I both work out a lot. The guys around here all brag in similar ways, and one of them told me the woman he was seeing didn't brush her teeth, so she'd lost a few teeth.

We eat healthy and live healthy, and he was genuinely surprised at how clean my place was. Then he started complaining that he doesn't have a woman who cooks and cleans for him. I asked another foreigner, and he said if you want a clean house you can just hire a cook or a housekeeper, but then he complained that his girlfriend mostly just scrolls Instagram.

Is that just the type of woman they date, or are they low-value men themselves?

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Past-Obligation-265511

Stop watching those YouTube gurus. In a relationship, you get back exactly what you put up with.

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ComfortableSpare10324

Being around 40 and looking for a twenty-year-old says it all. I think for a healthy relationship the age gap should be 10 years at most. I get that if you have the budget you might hire a yaya (housemaid) to cook and clean. Honestly, if you have money and work full-time over 160 hours a week, that's a huge help. But complaining about it is on a whole other level. Especially when you've been invited to someone else's home.

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Acceptable-River-3343

Can't men clean up what they used themselves lol

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