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Why are women on dating apps so flaky?

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Oct 12

Why are women on dating apps so flaky?

Why are so many Filipino women on dating apps like this? So often they go lukewarm, stop replying, and ask zero questions. Even when they're the ones who started the chat and told me about themselves. Some are nice and interesting, but at least half of them feel like talking to a wall. Why even be on a dating app if you're going to act like that? They're not even asking for money. What have your experiences been, and why do you think this happens?

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Just for validationJust not into youCarry the conversation?Screen the time-wastersOpposite in the PHToo much competitionFrom the women's side
Just for validation
3a5m35

A huge share of women on dating apps have no real intention of meeting. They're just there for validation. Your number one goal should be filtering out these time-wasters. It's the same everywhere in the world, and I think it's getting worse. Then a fair share will want something different from you. You want something serious and they want something casual, or the other way around. Dating apps peaked right after the pandemic, and now so many people are cynical and burned out from awful experiences. Meeting in person is back in style.

Just not into you
autumn_moon2121

We're just not that into you. That's the only reason

Carry the conversation?
Past-Obligation-265513

Guys need to learn to either lock it in by getting her number and setting up a date, or make their intentions clear sooner. If a better offer comes along, she'll probably take it. Nine times out of ten, that's why she stopped talking to you.

Screen the time-wasters
GE9639

My experience: after asking a few hard questions, filter out the 99% who don't seem like a good match or where something feels off.

Opposite in the PH
Upset_Coconut770615

I've had the complete opposite. Using dating apps in the Philippines, they're instantly 'in love,' want to video call every day, and never stop texting lol. What you're describing is how it is in the US lol

Too much competition
Mobile-Peanut48884

There are 100,000 foreigners messaging them

From the women's side
OrdinaryRisk27653

Well, as a Filipina who gets flaky guys... I guess it's a tie.

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