American men leave too many negative comments about Filipino women

So many men treat women with wrong behavior, like showering them with money and showing off. As a result, many get betrayed, and that's why it feels bitter.

Me too, I'm happily married. Communication is key!

This is mostly a forum where people come to vent, so of course you hear more bad stories than good ones. Does that mean there are no good stories? No. There are plenty of men happily living with Filipino women, so there must be plenty of good stories too. But have you never had any problems in your relationships? I'm skeptical. Is your relationship good because your partner is amazing, or because you've only had a few relationships, so any experience feels positive? Both are good questions. Honestly, most men who come to the Philippines for women have very little experience with women, and they come because they couldn't get that same attention back home. Or they're the common type who is old, overweight, or poor. Before you belittle people who complain, have you considered that their expectations of women may differ from yours? Filipino women are no different from other women. They have flaws just like women of any other nationality. Addendum: My favorite comment from this person is the one about a Filipino woman who said she'd rather sleep with a Filipino man because he was too small for her. TDE, friend. Clearly, this is someone who has a lack of happy experiences, no matter what they are.

Some of it is their own fault. My partner still lives in the Philippines, and she says American men approach her at beaches, shops, coffee shops, and restaurants, ask if she's single, and when she says no, they ask for proof and ask for her phone number. I think a certain percentage assume all Filipino women are easy and that a man like them is the right choice for every Filipino woman, no matter what he looks like.

I started talking online with Filipino women through a dating app. First, I had to filter out fake accounts to find real ones. Then came the one-on-one chat stage. Some women asked for money, and when I explained that my money was being saved for a trip to the Philippines, I blocked them right away. I sympathize with difficult situations, but I always made it clear that I didn't come to give charity. Eventually I talked with a Filipino woman who didn't ask for money and just talked about her dreams for the future. We have honest, good conversations and agree on everything. It took me a month to find her, and she says she's really looking forward to meeting me in person. I trust her. And if the worst happens... I'll just block her and find someone else.