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Oct 2

Should I break up with my Filipina girlfriend?

First off, I don't need any jerks dumping nasty crap in the comments. I know what this sorry sub has turned into, but I want genuine advice.

I've been with my girlfriend for 6 months and I'm just not attracted to her. There's no chemistry, and honestly she's not great in bed, but I feel bad because we're living together here in the Philippines. What should I do? I'm 38. That's not that old.

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Break up nowWild exit plansWhy move in?Talk to her firstExit carefullyDo it for her tooSpat with OP
Break up now
jaymike1220

If you're even asking that question, the answer is yes.

Wild exit plans
CoolMarch17

Ask her if she's down for a threesome and whether you can bring another girl to bed. If she says yes, great. If she says no, you'll probably end up fighting, and then breaking up gets a lot easier. Good luck.

Why move in?
TReebornFrog22027

There are literally millions of people here and you chose to live with one you're not attracted to and have no connection with. And you need our advice? Are you an idiot? Probably.

Talk to her first
Behavior-Coach8

Have you ever talked to her about any of this?

Exit carefully
psy-study-oldie8

Be careful not to leave her in a tough spot, like having nowhere to live. Don't post anything negative on social media. Pay two months' rent and quietly move to another province.

Do it for her too
S1rmunchalot5

You've already made up your mind and you're just looking for a way to justify it. Accept it. Which is worse: letting her believe she'll have a life with a loving, devoted partner, or becoming a man who grows more and more distant and resentful? If you like her even a little, if you have even a shred of empathy for her feelings, don't do that to her.

Spat with OP
WholeUmpire24634

If you wanted genuine advice... you should've gone to a dating sub.

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