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Tallwhitedude123RepostReddit
Oct 1

If you're looking for a traditional, conservative woman, you probably won't find one in the Philippines, and here's why

Before I get into it, I already know most of the guys replying will talk about how great their Filipina girlfriend/wife is. From what I've seen, they're the MINORITY!

Here's the reality in 2026:

There's a reason the passport bro crowd flocks to the Philippines as its number one destination: in all of Asia, Filipinas are known as by far the easiest to hook up with casually. Am I saying all Filipinas are easy? Of course not. But generally, everyone knows what I'm saying is true. I'm not trying to shame anyone either. It's just a fact. Go to Vietnam and try to casually hook up with Vietnamese women. It's much harder. Vietnamese women are probably the most traditional and conservative in Asia, and certainly far more conservative than Filipinas.

Here's the deal: foreigners WANT EASY, not traditional or conservative. That's why they skip Vietnam and head straight to the Philippines. But if you're genuinely looking for a traditional, conservative woman, I think you'll definitely have better luck in Vietnam, maybe even Thailand. From what I see, the Philippines is just a meat market. If that's what you want in a wife, it's your place.

Again, obviously this doesn't apply to all Filipinas, but in general there's a far larger pool of Filipinas willing to hook up short-term with any foreigner. In Vietnam that pool is much smaller, so what I'm talking about is a numbers game. I'm not saying there are no easy Vietnamese women, there are, but the pool is much smaller than in the Philippines. Passport bros know this and flock to the Philippines for that reason. Do you want a Filipina wife who's already been passed around by tons of passport bros? 😏

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OP's insecurityWhere's the proof?The conservative mythThailand comparisonIt's just languageLocals vs expatsPlenty of good ones
OP's insecurity
SnooCakes514921

The level of insecurity in your posts is really something….

Where's the proof?
Different-Coach-8666

How do you even know this? Have you actually met enough Filipinas, Thai women AND Vietnamese women to compare, or are you just talking with the confidence of someone who thinks his personal experience is everyone's experience? Or maybe Filipinas just seem 'easier' because foreigners can communicate with them much more easily? Vietnam and the Philippines have almost the same population. One has legal abortion, the other doesn't. Now do the math and tell me again how you figured out the Philippines has this huge pool of 'easy' women compared to Vietnam. 😂

The conservative myth
nissansky-7

I don't know that the Philippines is the top passport bro country by numbers over places like Colombia or Thailand, but I agree the stereotype of Filipinas being conservative is misleading. Sure, they're majority Catholic on paper and more likely to want the man to provide while they stay home with the kids. But the vast majority are pro-LGBT and aren't virgins when they marry. If that floats your boat, dive right in, I'm no pinnacle of morality either. But the women here are far from the 1950s trad wife some guys fantasize about finding.

Thailand comparison
happymann691

Sorry to say, far more guys flock to Thailand than the Philippines. Lots of women there want to hook up too, and I'm not talking about Bangkok or Pattaya. And Thailand is easier to get to than the Philippines. I've been married to a Cebuana and to a Thai woman, and I wish I'd stayed with my Cebu wife, but you can't turn back the clock.

It's just language
nocans3

Lol. Everything you're saying is very true, in the garden of your mind.

Locals vs expats
JBBooks19012

It's easy for Filipinos on this site to dump on an expat who says uncomfortable truths.

Plenty of good ones
pitt2341

It's not really about conservative, it's about traditional. We make decisions together, but she accepts my reasoning without argument when I'm firm about it. She loves being a woman, she loves her sexuality, and she hates feminism for making women give that up. She takes pride in taking care of me. She takes pride in being a great wife in a feminine way. Yeah, if you're insecure and need a virgin, maybe this isn't the place for you. If you want a traditional girl, it's the best place.

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