I've been texting back and forth with this Filipina girl lately, and one day I'm checking her Instagram and suddenly vacation photos start flooding her feed.
"My exact reaction back then 😂"
(Meme: A guy with earphones on, sitting at a restaurant table, holding his forehead and making a crying face)
Highlights looks like this; 🇵🇭 🇸🇬 🇹🇭 🇦🇪 🇯🇵 🇫🇷 🇩🇪 🇳🇱 🇬🇧 🇨🇭 🇮🇹 🇺🇸 Tons of thirst trap bikini pictures on beaches, some hiking trails overpriced cocktails in rooftop bars as she gazes whimsically to a side. Some high end shopping bags with shoes. Dinners in high end restaurants with pasta, steak or seafood. Hotel mirror selfies. Some inspirational quotes about being an entrepreneur or success or how she "doesn't travel to get away from life rather she travels so life doesn't get away from her" On further inspection; a pair of dude's underpants in the background, a dude's reflection in her sunglasses. A hairy, sunburnt Rolex-adorned arm at the side of the shot.
Bro got experience. 🙏
I think we've all dealt with this girl at some point or other 🤝
The entrepreneur part always gets me.... Sure, you funded that Louis Vuitton shopping spree in Paris from your homemade lumpia sales.
Hey... I dont wear a Rolex, my arm counts too 🤣
Its a fake Rolex you bought at divisoria for 3,000php
A dime a dozen
Competition is very intense 😂😂👋
Bro, why cry over realizing the reality?! Keep it moving and on to the next one my guy!
Well, at least she didn't get offloaded.
Are you committed with her? If not, why do men who can’t commit even care? 😅 If she did find someone who can afford to give her that then good for her. Lots of men can’t commit so I can’t blame the women who decides to just play the men’s game. Also, there are filipinas who can actually afford to travel with their own money. Not all need a man to fund it lol Usually, the foreign men who complain like this are LBH 🤡
Filipina girl perspective is welcome and I don’t disagree with your sentiment. That said, these are pretty big red flags the girl has a sugar daddy. And If a guy is looking for wife / serious partner material, a girl with a sugar daddy is probably not the one 😂
They are not even dating, just talking. She can do whatever she wants.
Idk about the circle you talk to but my circle of female friends travel regularly, both domestically and internationally, with our own hard-earned money from corporate work. 😅 Maybe find an upper class circle.
Do you think that is the norm for the majority of the country? I dont think the meme was speaking about every single woman in the philippines. Also, from my understanding, these uper uper class filipinas like yourself, are generally not talking to multiple foreigners on the internet romantically... which is the point of the meme
I’m Pinay, and I often travel solo. What’s wrong here? 🧐
I think the idea is the assumption that she cannot afford it on her own. So that change in lifestyle hints at the fact that she now has a partner.
You wouldn't stay in the Okada Manila alone
Ive stayed in hotels alone, i need a comfy bed when i travel 🤣🤣, if you mean a 5 star hotel, then ok, thats a little suspicious.
**🤣🤣 its 2026, we can have career and spoil ourselves.**
I know many Filo girls who works or has family members working as flight attendants, pilots or airlines staff. They are able to travel for free. My ex was also a flight attendant ,so she and her sisters are able to travel the world. It's actuall very common here, that's why you'll see many younger kids posting travel pics. Many educated Filos are also able to get remote jobs which pays way higher than your expected 18k monthly. My friends earn atleast 300k to 500k a month. And they're only in their 20s. Sadly, seeing how most expats here comment, I can already tell what kind of people you date and surround yourself with. Because your experience with dating would always depend on the kind of environment you expose yourself.
Yea so many Filipinos get overseas remote work for 300/500k a month 🤡
Yeah. MANY but not the majority. There's a difference. Like I said, your experience in the country you're in, depends on what kind of environment and people you surround yourself with.
Ummm... the statistics say less than .5% make over 200k per month. So your friend group is the richest of the rich. Clearly not who the meme is directed at
some pinays got have their own money lol what a loser
If you want to say "most" then the pinays you are talking about make 15-18k a month. Thats not enough to travel abroad. SOME pinays work and can afford international travel, but it is FARRRRR from most. Its a pretty small percentage. Obviously the meme is meant to be humorous. And if we really want to say "most" as in the majority... the majority of pinay that travel abroad are being sponsored by somebody. My wife still has issues getting visas even with me as her sponsor. The account i use for financial proof has over 200k usd in it and she still gets questioned. So no, "most" pinays are not paying for thier own international travel.
Grabeeee reading their comment definitely they want a girl home sapiens who's far from evolution. Yeah it's sad. Definitely traveling abroad was more affordable than traveling around the Philippines.
Contrary to popular common belief about Filipinos, in 2026 Pinays KNOW that most Foreign men traveling solo to the Philippines or are on these dating sites geared towards looking for Asian Women are just Regular Middle to Lower Class working class men and NOT high income wealthy men. So you would ONLY attract Same 4 Same or ladies from poor backgrounds. So yes, a World Traveler Luxury Shopper type would NOT be in some dating app, chat sites like AFAM4PINAY talking to YOU 😀. That's probably a Male Scammer in Nigeria.
What’s the problem of this dude? Us girls have money. We can go on a trip.
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